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4 days ago
How do you give advice in domestic abuse situation when you’ve never been threw it? Like I don’t wanna make her feel like she wrong for being scared and concerned. Last Edited: 4 days ago
4 days ago
Give suggestions and resources to help her make a decision.

Lawd, I've gotten older because I would have said some smart shit.
4 days ago
Fucalladat:

Give suggestions and resources to help her make a decision.

Lawd, I've gotten older because I would have said some smart shit.

I have she’s legit worried. I’m upset because she got fear in heart from a nigga I know a pussy. But I wanna help not judge.
4 days ago
Smootherella_:

I have she’s legit worried. I’m upset because she got fear in heart from a nigga I know a pussy. But I wanna help not judge.

I respect you for not wanting to judge...
I mean you can only tell a person so many times.
Remember you can lead a horse to water but you can't make em drink.
4 days ago
Fucalladat:

I respect you for not wanting to judge...
I mean you can only tell a person so many times.
Remember you can lead a horse to water but you can't make em drink.

Very true. She’s so smart and beautiful it just breaks my heart. Like she left him but he gets out of jail tomorrow and it’s like I see her clamming up.
4 days ago
Only thing you CAN do is stay by her side and talk her through her situation, but be honest about what you wanna say.
Be aware of her heart/feelings, but be honest about your thoughts at the same time.
It sucks to see someone deal with domestic abuse, it's even worse not having any idea what to say out of fear of how said person will take your thoughts afterwards.
4 days ago
But then again, the inner Brooklyn nigga in me says MASK UP AND CLAP HIS HOUSE UP!
4 days ago
eriQ.:

But then again, the inner Brooklyn nigga in me says MASK UP AND CLAP HIS HOUSE UP!

lmfao
4 days ago
Smootherella_:

Very true. She’s so smart and beautiful it just breaks my heart. Like she left him but he gets out of jail tomorrow and it’s like I see her clamming up.

I know. I dealt with a friend like that. I got ghost on her tho.
I'm just not in the market of being repetitive. I told her what I thought...
I was even nice about it. She didn't follow suit. When he Ike Turner'd that ass,
she got a clue and left.
4 days ago
Fucalladat:

lmfao

Ay...
I'm tryna help n shit.
Being a sweet(ish)heart n shit.
4 days ago
eriQ.:

But then again, the inner Brooklyn nigga in me says MASK UP AND CLAP HIS HOUSE UP!

Man I’m a real street bitch I take 1800 bottle across niggas shit. I don’t know how to just pray for better days or fear a mf that bleed like me. But I know it’s difficult so I’m trying to see it threw her eyes.